The 'Undisputed' eager to fight

I learned and discovered this facet of myself with Nova, because he likes to joke with people too much:

1. You don't like to be repeatedly touched on your body.
2. Somebody knows you dislike to be touched.
3. That person touches you a lot of times.
4. Your anger rises to the point that you hit that person.
5. That person uses that attack of yours as an excuse to fight against you.
6. You show your strength, and that person sees you are strong enough.
7. Then, that person says that he was simply touching you.
8. That person also says that you are the crazy one.
9. As you feel that hypocrisy, you say that person won't be a good friend of yours.
10. That person sees how you ignore him, and then he wants to be your friend.

Now I understand, in Matrix Reloaded, what Seraph meant when he said: "You do not truly know someone until you fight them."

• Carlos and Ivans, after our encounters
• Sasuke and Naruto talk using fists
• Boyka and Turbo in Undisputed III
• And tons of stories about supposedly opposite extremes that get acquainted and sometimes they even identify a common enemy.
  

So, could that initial bothering of people we show be just a unconscious eagerness or impulse from ourselves to get acquainted with that person?

Wow, terrific! How many corners of our subconsciousness will we still keep unexplored?